Lately, I have been attracting clients to me like crazy who are all having the same problem – they’re involved in a messy love triangle.
My initial reaction to this new trend of similarities in my client’s plights was originally, I must admit, not very kind. For starters, I couldn’t help but think to myself: “Geez, your biggest problem in life right now is that you have to choose between TWO men? I’d take that problem any day!”
I admit, the betrayed woman in me still feels a little sting when it’s a client who’s having an extramarital affair. I never judge my clients because we are all involved in different situations in life but when something hits close to home I can’t help but feel affected. After you’ve lived through the fall out of “another woman” it’s hard to remain completely impervious. Sue me, I’m human.
But as I analyze the compatibility between my clients and their two choices in love the same thing is always so clear. It’s not about the “choice” it’s about the “chooser.” Something is always at the root of this so called problem and it has nothing to do with indecision over whether to go for the dreamy doctor with the curly hair or the sexy bodybuilder.
And this is what I love the most about astrology. I can help my clients get to the root causes of their problems during that one single session. Astrology is not just fortunetelling. I can see into your psyche – in a deeply intimate way.
One woman realized that her fear of repeating her mother’s pattern of cheating on her father was what kept her so unsure about which man to choose. It was a pretty deep revelation for her. And it was all there in the birth chart.
A male client who has this wonderful new woman in his life is still pining away for a woman who he never even had a relationship with but is convinced is his “soul mate.” Well, guess what his friendly neighborhood astrologer told him? It was more about his fear of commitment than anything else. It’s easy to “commit” to a woman you know you will never have. Ahhhh the light bulb went off.
In the end it doesn’t matter if you’re involved in a love triangle, a love quadrilateral or if you’re alone, wondering when the hell love will come your way. The truth of the matter is, unless you have really learned to love and respect yourself one plus one will never equal two.
- Maria DeSimone, www.InsightfulAstrology.com
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